End-of-life planning, wills, & so on

Someone started a good thread on Permies on this topic.

I shared in response:

What a great thread! This is a topic I’ve given a lot of thought to, as a single person with no children. A couple years back I had an attorney (who is also a neighbor!) draw up a living will, Last Will & Testament, and power of attorney documents for me. It only cost about US$500 which I felt was a very worthwhile investment.

My lifestyle is very different from that of my siblings. I dropped out of the middle claas many years ago, and my income has been at or well below the poverty level for some years now. I don’t believe in keeping a lot of money around; I don’t invest in Wall Street or other funds etc.

I am a huge believer in the eight forms of capital. The idea that there are so many different kinds of capital other than money, and that they are in many ways much more stable. Examples include buildings, tools, and social capital. 

Because my financial path has been very different from that of my siblings, who have regular jobs and 401(k)s and that kind of thing, I felt it was particularly important to try to make sure they don’t get stuck with some kind of financial burden should I die before them. The fact that I live geographically distant from the rest of my family makes this even more important; I don’t want them to have to mess with a lot of administrative stuff from several hundred miles away. 

Most of my wealth is in the form of my house, which is mortgage-free. I also have a fractional ownership in a permaculture farm/learning center in another part of the state, and I keep a bit of money in the bank for home repairs and such.

Mainly I try to keep my money flowing in the local economy. Which is beneficial to me and to the local economy, but my siblings are not going to see financial benefit from that.

One thing I haven’t done yet, but plan to do, is write up a letter about my philosophy of finances and life. So that if I die suddenly, they might not agree with my unconventional money choices but they will at least know that I gave respectful thought and loving care to how I spent and used my portion of the inheritance that we got from our parents.

Can we stop fighting density! Please!

Dear Fellow Earth Guardians!

I hope you’ve been enjoying this holiday season, however you choose to spend it. If you’re like me, you probably never really take off your eco activist hat even on holidays!

One big thing a lot of us worry about is development that will harm our local environment. But when we fight certain kinds of development, we often end up making things worse.

For example: Many environmentalists fight density. This past week I heard about yet another development getting downgraded to “low-density residential.” That might sound good, but it’s actually bad news.

To explain why, I found this good blog post that concisely summarizes the problems associated with low-density development. See link to full article below.

(If you’re already among those of us who recognize that density isn’t the horrible evil thing some environmentalists think it is, this article will give you some good talking points for communicating with “the other side.”)

Excerpt:

“A large percentage of Americans LOVE low-density residential living, and regularly fight against any proposal that would bring more compact development anywhere near them.

“But low-density development has many problems – problems that a growing number of Americans are beginning to recognize. …

“The naive, misguided knee-jerk ‘solution’ is to fight for lower densities, which, of course, simply makes things worse. Increasingly, what this means is that people who should know better (liberals, intellectuals, greens) are urging ‘no growth’ and ‘no change,’and fighting AGAINST smart growth tactics — thereby unintentionally aligning themselves with the black hat sprawl developers. …”

https://domz60.wordpress.com/2016/10/24/some-problems-associated-with-low-density-residential-living/

Hope you find this helpful! I look forward to hearing your thoughts. By the way, this whole blog looks like a good resource for urbanism.

On a related note, this coming week I will be hosting a discussion on “Aging in Place.”
Low-density residential developments are some of the worst places for our elderly citizens, especially those who live alone.
The discussion is happening Wednesday, November 29 at 4pm. At the Unitarian Universalist congregation of Ormond Beach, 56 N. Halifax, Ormond Beach 32176. It will be in person, and if possible also by zoom or Facebook Live.

We ARE the Global 1%

Bad news for people who want to point fingers, but good news for the rest of us:

A recent article in the Washington Post reports that the world’s richest one percent pollute more than the poorest two-thirds.

Billionaires are probably usually who we think of when we think of the 1%. Most of us probably think of ourselves as the middle class.

You and I may not be among the one percent here in the USA and similarly rich consumerist nations. But globally, many of us here are very much that very 1% that we so love to blame.

If you check out the comment section of that WaPo article, you’ll notice that a lot of people are missing this key point.

To find out where you stand globally in terms of income and wealth, do a search on “global income calculator” and “global wealth calculator”; you’ll find a — pardon the pun wealth of info.

For example:

To be in the top 1% within the USA, income-wise, you’d need to be earning over 700K. The average income in the USA is just 57K (smartasset.com).

However, that 57K that’s only average in the United States puts you nearly in the 1% globally! And of course many of you are reading this blog make more than 57K. (According to this “How rich am I?” calculator, an income of 60K puts you in the top 1% globally. Even at 57K, you are still in the richest 1.1%.) (Figures are after-tax income.)

So in other words, lots of you who are reading this blog, reading the Washington Post, etc., fall into this category.

Why is this good news? Because there are so darn many of us! It’s the big fat middle of the bell curve! (I myself am actually in the underclass in terms of income, but for various reasons consider myself to be included in the privileged strata.)

Because there are so many of us, we add up to make a difference. It would be really bad news if we had to rely on the bajillionaires to suddenly embrace personal austerity for the planetary good. There aren’t very many of those people. And also, they don’t have as much incentive as we do.

Everyone likes to point at billionaires with their private jets. And of course, the politicians in their publicly funded jets just really need to stop jetsetting around the world to climate conferences and photo ops and such, and use Zoom a lot more.

However, rampant airline travel among what I call the “comfortably-off middle class,” mainly us white Boomers, casually jetsetting all over the planet, sometimes two and three and four flights a year, is way more of a problem. There’s just a lot more of it by sheer numbers. (Same goes for the car addiction.)

By the way, I’m not talking about just everyone in the comfortably-off middle class. As you know if you’ve been following my blog and book for a while, I focus my efforts on those of us who consider ourselves environmentalists.

People who aren’t particularly concerned about the environment are going to do whatever their income permits, and whatever a consumerist society that glorifies what my mother used to call “wretched excess” permits.

But those of us who are worried about the environment have extra responsibilities. Haven’t we leisure-traveled enough at our age? Let the young people, or those who’ve never traveled, have a chance.

And no, it doesn’t matter if the plane is powered by some special “less bad” fuel made out of fat and sugar. There’s no magic way for the upper-strata-middle-class masses to keep living a robber-baron lifestyle and still think we’re going to fix the damage we’ve caused to the planet.

I’ve written extensively about the problematic aspects of extreme consumerist tourism, and it doesn’t matter what kind of fuel we use to get there.

For as long as I can remember, the national sport of us environmentalists has been “othering.” Othering the fossil-fuel companies; othering China; othering the politicians of whatever party we don’t like. Blaming someone else other than looking at our own habits. The only habits we can change our our own. Let’s stop normalizing energy-gluttony.

One easy way to stop normalizing and glorifying energy-gluttony is to stop posting examples of it on social media. Easy-peasy — you don’t even have to change any of your personal habits. Post attractive examples of thrift and local living, and kindly refrain from posting pics of your sixth European vacation or cruise or whatever.

PS. Regarding the fat- and sugar- powered airplane, as well as other similar stories, I call this kind of stuff “Liberal Eco-Boomer Porn,” because it feeds our fantasies of being able to just continue our robber-baron lifestyles if we just “switch to renewables.” Nope.

(BTW, in Deep Adaptation and Degrowth circles, we call these kind of green fairy-tale stories “Hopium.”)

(If you’re new to this blog and/or new to the concept of EROI — energy return on investment — I recommend watching Michael Moore’s film Planet of the Humans, and Sid Smith’s talk “How to Enjoy the End of the World.” Both are available via various online streaming channels. The latter is available on YouTube.)

The good news is our robber-baron lifestyles aren’t all that great. Look at the default settings around us in the USA and the countries that have copied our ways to their detriment. All this distance, all this high-speed go-go-go, the incessant noise of mechanized equipment performing unnecessary tasks everywhere we look, all this vacant asphalt parking-lot ugliness, the hideous “landscaping” that only looks good from behind a car window, all this social isolation. Kids not even being able to walk to school or take the bus anymore, instead being individually each dropped off by a parent in a car. Yuck! How does anyone think this is OK? Is all of this really the life you would design? If it were, surely you wouldn’t be constantly flying to quaint old walkable European cities and villages, or laid-back Caribbean towns, for a “vacation.”

PPS. Speaking of airlines … While it was originally the automobile industry and oil barons who engineered the decline of what had been a robust passenger-rail system linking the whole continental USA, I believe that the airline industry, with lots of help from government and consumers, has kept it this way and made it worse. Maybe not on purpose but that has been the result.

On a note close to home, some airline recently got paid a bunch of money to set up operations at Daytona Beach airport. Gross! If we’re going to give money to airlines, we should be giving even more to train and bus service!!

PPPS. Speaking of flying, some more …

There are multiple reasons why I quit flying some years back. But if I needed another reason, this article in the New York Times would do it:

“Drunk and Asleep on the Job: Air Traffic Controllers Pushed to the Brink” https://www.nytimes.com/2023/12/02/business/air-traffic-controllers-safety.html

“Air traffic controllers, who spend hours a day glued to monitors or scanning the skies with the lives of thousands of passengers at stake, are a last line of defense against crashes. The job comes with high stakes and intense pressure, even in the best of conditions.

“Yet the conditions for many controllers are far from ideal. A nationwide staffing shortage — caused by years of employee turnover and tight budgets, among other factors — has forced many controllers to work six-day weeks and 10-hour days.

“The result is a fatigued, distracted and demoralized work force that is increasingly prone to making mistakes …”

Off-grid hand-wash station

Cool!!! While pondering a simple hand-wash station for my little off-grid she-shed / glamp-‘partment, I googled “wash station using tippy jug,” and behold the wonderful resource I found!!

“Handwashing Using a Tippy Tap Conserves Water and They Are Easy to Build Too!

“A tippy-tap is a simple handwashing device made of locally available material and very easy to build.

“It is really an ingenious solution to the problem of hygienic handwashing where there is no piped water.

“They are so simple to make that even children can do it. …

“Where there is no piped water and especially where water is scarce, using a tippy-tap can provide for hygienic hand washing and water conservation.”

(Side note: Isn’t it wonderful how internet-searching can work even if we don’t know the right words for something and are just guessing!! Which is rather often in my case!)

http://www.clean-water-for-laymen.com/handwashing.html

Do you have any favorite solutions for a simple off-grid hand-washing station? If so please feel free to share your approach on my public post on Facebook!

And speaking of off-grid fun and experimentation … Brrr, Getting some chilly weather (at least for Florida LOL). No worries though! Here I am stylishly bundled up in preparation to embark on an at-home, glamping staycation in my plush urban off-grid she-shed!

#water #conservation #urbanoffgridlab

You don’t need 100 acres or even close

Something that pops up in my feed a lot: people expressing some version of the idea of buying a huge amount of rural acreage in order to live “sustainably.”

(Looks like this thread is public; if you do Facebook you can see it here and participate if you like. It’s actually grown into quite a rich thread with many viewpoints.)

Here are some thoughts I wrote in response:

Or a bunch of friends can get together and each buy a house in close proximity in a neighborhood! Then each person would be in charge of their own space, and yet people would live close enough together to be able to combine efforts and share resources.

[A hundred acres] is way too many acres for just a few people. We need to normalize using only our fair share.

Added later for clarity: I’m not trying to be negative, but the math just doesn’t work out.

If everyone tried to do this, living on large acreage with just a few people, there physically wouldn’t be enough land for everyone.

And there’s no need to take up so much land. There are people growing thousands of pounds of food at their homes on regular-sized lots in cities and suburbs.

Even 1 acre is a huge amount to manage. It’s a lot of work, as well it should be.

Getting along with neighbors can be a challenge. But then again if we try to live out on rural acreage with a group of people, there would be similar challenges of getting along.

And in response to someone’s question asking, But can we raise animals on small urban lots, I responded:

This is a great question. And something we don’t have enough of right now.

Yes, there are some cities & towns that allow backyard livestock.

Also in rural areas there are some places that will allow, for example (in Florida where I live), three cows on as little as an acre.

Back during World Wars I and II, people were not only encouraged but in many cases almost required to raise food in their own backyards.

But in the postwar years, economic prosperity got a lot of people away from raising their own food, especially in the towns and cities.

But now that the economy is what it is, with a lot of people struggling, it seems like a great opportunity to push back against the towns, cities, HOAS etc that have restrictions preventing people from exercising the right to grow food in their yards. It should be a basic human right.

Here are a couple of articles I found by doing some searches.

Also, I would recommend that everybody look into their local regulations. Sometimes people assume it’s illegal when it’s actually not.

5 top cities for raising urban livestock: https://modernfarmer.com/2015/01/5-top-cities-raising-urban-livestock/

What cities allow goats:
https://www.backyardchickens.com/threads/what-cities-allow-goats.159257/

How chicken keeping began as a war effort:
https://theaustincommon.com/bawk-to-the-future-how-backyard-chicken-keeping-began-as-a-war-effort/

These are just a few of the many search results that I found.

Gratitude; Speaking Up

Good Morning, Morning Stars! Happy Wednesday everyone! GratitudeFamilyFriendFoodsGiving eve!!

Below I am posting a link for an article that caught my eye first thing on my e-newspaper this morning. Hope you find it helpful! I do!

“Speak Up at Thanksgiving. Your Health Depends on It.”

“… For many of us, especially in our current political climate, speaking up in such settings feels risky. Yet the act of choosing silence might be affecting us more deeply than we think — to the detriment of our emotional and even physical well-being. Far from preserving peace, holding back our thoughts can leave us more unsettled and unhappy. Over time, this leads to increased stress and strain, not just within ourselves but in the very relationships we are trying to preserve. …”

https://www.nytimes.com/2023/11/21/opinion/christmas-holiday-health-thanksgiving-conversations.html

(OPINION GUEST ESSAY – In New York Times; by Sunita Sah. Dr. Sah is an organizational psychologist at Cornell University.)

#SpeakUp #mentalhealth

PS. Go here to see my sunrise coffee beach pics from this morning. I have added some touches to my little beach-purse. Reinforced a seam along the edges and added a nice loop for my cup and spoon. (They were just hanging from the strap before, but that started to wear on the strap and crinkle it.) The bag is made out of fabric from a discarded beach umbrella; it has lasted well for a couple of years so far. (The white edging which I just added is part of my stock of materials that I inherited from multi generations of women who love to sew! The strap itself is also from that inventory.)

PPS. And for those of us who are exploring alternatives to celebrating Thanksgiving per se: Bustle.com offers “10 Thanksgiving Alternatives You Can Celebrate This Month.

PPPS. But wait, there’s more! Update 11/23: In today’s Antiracism Daily newsletter, Nicole Cardoza shares her article on how to have tough conversations during the holidays.

Fashion pages

Loving my adorable new-to-me capri pants from For The Low Urban Boutique !! My beautiful, style-conscious friend Kenya Tumer-Griffin (who is crafty too!! yay crafty girls!) maintains an excellent selection. Of a variety of clothing, shoes, accessories, carefully curated.

If you are fortunate enough to live in Daytona Beach, go see her; the boutique is in the 1600 block of N. Ridgewood. East side of street.

Here, I have paired the pants with my pale-purply-pink stretch tank top, with a brown lace cami layered over that. The brown lace cami was a hurricane salvage from the beach a couple years back.

See pics here.

The color of the pants is lovely, I guess I would call it kind of a dusty brown rose, faded to perfection.

I shouldn’t tell you how much these cute & comfy capri’s were, because you might get jealous. But, it wouldn’t be right to withhold such valuable information from my friends. The price was all of 5 dollars!!!

Shoes: as infrequently as possible. I am known to walk barefoot over the bridge carrying my shoes and putting them on at the last minute when it’s time to enter a building. Today I chose my crocs. I don’t remember how these came into my possession. Yard sale? Hurricane salvage? (Though it would be weird to find a complete pair of shoes via storm flotsam; that would just be too lucky.)

The crocs were originally camo pattern but I painted them purple for Dre’s funeral in September. (But then I ended up feeling it’d be a more fitting tribute to wear my flower boots to her service, so I painted those purple. Dre loved purple, and Prince.)

Jewelry is my leaf earrings, which I have had for a long time. I think I bought them from one of my local Paparazzi jewelry vendor friends. If you don’t yet know your local Paparazzi vendors, you need to get on it right away!

Plus a sparkly necklace from my own bead shop / collection, plus this lovely necklace that my dad purchased in the Philippines in the early 1970s while he was in the Navy. He brought back one necklace for me and one for my sister. This necklace has deep sentimental value. The cylindrical beads are made from a nut called Buto nuts, which I gather are indigenous to the Philippines.

My general fashion philosophy … For a long time, I have mostly either bought used clothes or made my own, or edited old clothes. This saves money but that’s not the reason why I do it. I actually don’t like new clothes as much, and try not to buy them unless I absolutely have to, such as underwear. Because often the quality of new stuff is inferior, seems to be getting worse and worse each year.

And also, the fashion industry has a super high eco-footprint. (If you want a documentary about this, check out The True Cost. Very eye-opening, well worth a watch. I have seen it twice.) 

As I get older, I become less prone to care what is “supposed” to be in style, and I care more what looks and feels good on me. I actually have no earthly idea what is supposed to be in fashion right now.

Some of the things I wear are literally from the 1960s <wink>. The 60s and 70s are probably my overall favorite decades for pretty much everything fashion and music and etc.

But the 90s certainly produced some good stuff. As far as I’m concerned, lightweight Capri cargo pants with lots of little pockets and ties and buttons will always be in style on planet Jenny!!

Hair by Neptune. (Not the name of a salon, but Neptune as in the actual physical ocean! Had a lovely refreshing dip this morning in my favorite big fat swimming pool at the east end of Harvey Ave.)

Happy day everyone! Go forth and dazzle in your own inimitable style, whatever that is for you!