Post-Nicole: Coastal erosion; nature-based solutions

Starting a list of thoughts; please feel free to message me to add yours!

• Treat our barrier island as a nature park, where visitors and residents are ecological stewards, and agree to support & protect the natural environment we are fortunate to call home.

• Mangroves yes!! Also seagrape, sea oats, saw palmetto, hardy dune wildflowers, & other tough coastal native plants w strong root systems. That will also increase the beauty of our place!

• Personally I would support a moratorium on building east of A1A. Allow existing intact buildings to stand til they crumble but no more new stuff.

• We should also reduce pavement; possibly de-pave some asphalt parking lots etc and have them be sand or crushed shell instead.

(I started this list in response to a good post by a fellow citizen in our county’s grassroots FB group. Here is her post below.)

Further Exploration:

“Coastal Erosion” (YouTube video.) Interesting science segment on possible solutions for coastal erosion: sea walls; bulkheads; revetments; groins; breakwaters; mangrove forests; beach nourishment; retreat.”

Beauty; memories

A friend on FB asked if there were photos of me from an earlier time in my life (a time I had just shared some non-me photos of: pics of buildings, autumn leaves etc.)

There is a part of me (even tho I have come a long way in terms of developing self-esteem independent from looks) that has some hangups about this & that related to posting photos of my younger selves.

For most of my young life, I guess from my tweens right up til my mid-40s, I was very invested in the idea of myself as “beautiful” in the very harshly strictly societally defined way. And I invested my energies accordingly, much to my own detriment.

Fortunately the part of me that insisted on devoting more energy to the inner path, education, personal growth, being in service, making a better world, has won out.

But when I look at photos of my younger selves the memories are bittersweet. Like, OK, I got some major kind of buzz out of being pretty and skinny. But also, I remember how I FELT inside … and I feel a lot better now let me tell you!

Still I feel shy about people’s judgment if I were to post photos of younger me. “Wow, she has really let herself go hasn’t she!” “Oh poor thing, she lost her looks and her skinny figure.”

Even though I actually on the inside feel so much stronger, genuinely happy, less brittle, not hanging by a thread, not caught up in drama. And even though I have become MILITANT about standing up to “skinny culture,” and defending women from fat-shaming.

I go about my day feeling happy in my self, happy in my body, comfortable in my skin. But once in a while I catch a glimpse at myself in a shop window reflection or something and I get a horrified backlash reaction that’s like a message coming forward in time from my young, vain, super-skinny self (who never thought she was pretty enough or thin enough).

Sometimes I tell her, “It’s OK though! We are SO happy now!! And I think we are probably a lot nicer to the world!”

This year I turned 60 and am so grateful. So yes I might sometime post photos of my younger self … but don’t be surprised if I don’t.

Freedom has many dimensions. So does beauty.

Affordable housing; costs of living

I would love to see some affordable apartments & houses built in my neighborhood on the beachside. We have a number of city-owned vacant lots, and the need is definitely there!!

I will keep advocating for truly affordably priced housing, and do whatever I can to promote it. I’m just one citizen, but there are many others advocating too. On that note, I did not realize that $1200 rent is being defined as “affordable” now and I hate that people are having to deal w that.

Even a few years ago, it was pretty easy to find apartments in my neighborhood for $500 or $600, but those are pretty much gone. We need apartments in the $500-600 range and we need them in all parts of town.

We also need to make it so more people can own their own homes.

When someone on a thread today mentioned $1200, I commented in response:

Wow that’s a lot. Hopefully that’s for a 2 or 3 bedroom??? When I first moved here from Texas, I was able to find cheap 1brs and split them with a roommate by making myself an extra “bedroom” out of tall bookcases. But, the supply of cheap apartments pretty much dried up.

If circumstances had not allowed me to buy a house (which I share with housemates), I might not have been able to stay in Daytona Beach even though I fell in love w this city and want to stay and make a difference.

Someone posted figures for the average monthly cost of living for just one person here in my city:

Rent: $1000
Electricity: $200
Water: $100
Phone: $50
Food: $400
Transportation: $300

Total: $2,050 per month

Average pay: $15/hr
40 hours: $600
4 weeks: $2400
Taxes: -$400
Total: $2,000

No room for recreation, medical expenses, or savings. I have totally been there, and would be still.

I am self-employed and my monthly income is about 700-800 before taxes. If I had to try to find an apartment now, I would either need to get multiple roommates or it would just never work.

The housing market used to naturally have more of a variety of options (all over the USA, not just here), but those are pretty much disappeared. Even mobile home parks/RV parks, which used to be one of the old reliable standbys, are getting bought up by corporations that then jack up the rent. And the old-fashioned Single Room Occupancy type buildings that a lot of people used to be able to rely on have just about gone extinct. Same with old-school landlords that did not require all sorts of credit checks, 3x income etc.

Increasing income disparity and wealth disparity is, I think, definitely a major problem and culprit of the housing crunch and homelessness throughout the USA. When I was a kid, the rich families just had bigger houses than the rest of us. Now we have people with two, three, four or more houses, which they can afford to leave sitting empty. The wealth snowballs and gets hoarded.

There are also stricter building codes and zoning nowadays, some of which may be legitimately necessary but a lot of which just jacks up the cost of construction and suppresses the market’s natural mechanisms for supplying housing. There used to be less restriction on renting out garage apartments, backyard cottages, and other naturally affordable housing options.

The lifestyle I call “deep green,” which I originally embarked on for ecological reasons, quickly showed itself to be very practical for saving money. For example:

Rent: $1000 — me, $250-300 by sharing w apartment mates (and now housemates)
Electricity: $200 — us, $35-38 split three ways
Water: $100 — us, $60 split three ways
Phone: $50 — I pay $50 for my phone also, which is also my internet
Food: $400 — me about $300, or more if I’m splurging in restaurants a lot
Transportation: $300 — my average is about $50 which includes bicycle repairs, a bit of gasoline, and the occasional cab ride

Total $2,050 — me about 700-800 (not including treats, and recent big-ticket items such as cataract surgery, glasses, new mattress)

Pain, privilege, and the possibility of liberation

Very astute piece, and resonates with what I have been learning from Desiree B. Stephens, Kokayi Nosakhere, and other antiracism educators about the need for us white people to decolonize our minds; go on our own healing journey.

Short excerpt:

“If we are serious about justice, we have to be committed to transforming those contributing to injustice. This means understanding how people with privileged identities are also harmed by systems of oppression, and supporting them in navigating that trauma and grief. … This is the deal patriarchy makes with men; that white supremacy makes with white people; that colonialism makes with colonizers. Because these systems are set up as domination hierarchies, no one can have belonging: genuine relationship isn’t possible under oppression. But some can be elevated over others.

“Instead of belonging, we (people who hold identities privileged by dominant cultures) are given power. Not the healthy expression of power-with, but the toxic expression of power-over: we can take a place in the hierarchy, but only by stepping on others. … Most of us well-intentioned white folks who get into social justice work do so because of our commitment to equity, and our desire to help others. That’s a great start, but it allows us not to situate ourselves in the struggle. It allows us to maintain the dangerous belief that these systems only harm “others.” It misunderstands how systems of oppression operate, and therefore how they can be dismantled.

“By focusing on our privilege we mask our pain, and lose an important opportunity to work for our own liberation in solidarity, not mere allyship.”

Read the whole article here: I asked for belonging… they gave me power
Pain, privilege, and the possibility of liberation
Brian Stout

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Non-accumulation

In today’s world, where even just getting one’s basic needs met and bills paid can be incredibly expensive, it might seem like non-accumulation is not a feasible way of life. But that isn’t necessarily the case.

By non-accumulation I don’t mean having literally zero money, zero possessions (though some people do it this way). I just mean deliberately only keeping just the amount of stuff and money one needs, and giving any surplus back to the land and community. This can include setting limits on how much money you earn.

These numbers and values will differ from person to person, and at different times and phases of our lives. None of what I’m setting forth here (or in any of my other writings/platforms) is meant to shame anyone for having, and satisfying, wants and needs that go beyond a bare minimum. I myself have, and satisfy, wants and needs that go beyond the bare minimum. Rather, for most of us who choose it, I see non-accumulation as a path or process.

I started down this path awhile back, and felt a bit like a maverick and like I’d best stay “in the closet” about it. In a society where whole industries are dedicated to frightening or shaming people into hoarding massive amounts of stuff and money (for “retirement”; in case of illness or needing longterm care etc.), going against the current can feel dangerous. Dangerous socially and emotionally as well as materially.

But I’ve learned actually that lots of people are in fact practicing non-accumulation. So if you’re doing it or interested in looking into it, you’ve got lots of good company. I’m compiling some resources for you and will put them in the links area below.

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A bit of my story … (This is actually ending up being kind of long & rambling and is not even finished yet. Unless you have some extra time and patience and/or curiosity today, you might want to just go ahead and scroll right down to the Further Reading links; I’ve shared some really great stuff there!)

All of my life really, I have been doggedly determined to work at the occupations I want to work at. “Creative and occupational freedom,” I call it. This doesn’t mean I have always been able to pay the bills by only ever doing work I love. But over the years, I have reduced to a minimum, and eventually to zero, any work other than work I love / my mission in the world.

What has helped me, other than sheer stubborn diehard determination to avoid excess work, soul-sucking toil, and meaningless work, is my ability and/or willingness to ruthlessly reduce my overhead expenses. I have always found it so worth the effort.

(I need to interject here: Just about any job or any type of work can be rewarding, joyful; a ministry. What’s problematic is if we’re being pressed to do a kind of work that doesn’t align with our moral values or purpose, or being forced to work inordinately long hours just to get one’s basic needs met, or being forced to work in a toxic environment.)

And only during some relatively brief periods of my life, when I experienced deep poverty in a non-voluntary form, have I had to do without anything that really mattered to me in life. During my “involuntary deep poverty” phases, I was neglecting my health, barely keeping a roof over my head, and sometimes going hungry. Obviously that level of “doing without” wasn’t good. Despite the physical hardship, this phase taught me an immensely valuable lesson: That the worst thing about having no money wasn’t having no money per se; the worst thing was the shame: feeling like I had to hide my status from loved ones, out of fear that they would be ashamed of me and angry with me for making bad choices and squandering opportunities.

From that low point I eventually realized that I was buying into societal beliefs that were nonsense. I realized that I had not, in fact, made “bad choices” or squandered opportunities. And I was not selfish or spoiled for believing in my work and being determined to find ways to keep doing it.

OK, so to try to make a long story less long … Over the years I have come to realize I need to be more, not less, determined to stick to my moral and spiritual values. For awhile, I thought maybe compromise was the answer. It was not. I only ended up living some half-assed caricature of a “respectable middle-class person.” The source of my suffering during my “involuntary poverty” phase wasn’t not having money; it was second-guessing my lifelong sense of purpose; not believing in myself.

On the topic of self-worth and not having money: At one point around late 2011, I had literally zero money for a couple of weeks. Actually my bank balance was minus 25 cents, I think. At the same time, I had $6,000 credit-card debt (from a business venture that didn’t end up panning out but was still worth doing). My feeling at that time was, “Wow, $6,000. My entire life isn’t worth $6,000! To the world or to anyone in it! And nothing I can foresee doing will ever be worth $6,000, to the world or to anyone in it.”

This line of thinking was directly counter to one of my core spiritual beliefs, that every being has inherent worth and dignity. But I still felt how I felt.

The way I got out of that hole was (in a micro-nutshell) by relaxing my self-judgment; forgiving myself for some stuff I shouldn’t have been mad at myself for in the first place. But that’s a story for another time. To get to the center of this story I’m sharing right now, I have to backtrack a few years.

Back in 2006, I spent six months taking an extended permaculture design curriculum and internship at an eco school up in New Mexico. (I was living in Texas at the time.)

One of my favorite things about my time there was the school library, a compact treasure-house of books on all aspects of sustainable living, sustainable civilization. A lot of the stuff only existed on paper and I’ve never been able to find it online. One such reading was an essay by the school’s late founder, an anthropologist, who described her long-ago experience living among people of a South Sea island culture. What impressed me and stuck with me was how their economy worked. There was no way to store food; no banks for storing money. So, the way to be rich was by giving away your surplus. Surplus fish, whatever. The more you gave away, the richer you were in the community. People fell over themselves trying to give stuff away. There was no official system of debt, but the more you gave away, the more people felt indebted to you. You built up a “debt” of gratitude. What we in permaculture call “social capital.” It sounded really cool and amazing to me, and I wanted to live my life this way but it didn’t seem feasible in mainstream USA culture.

Since that time, I’ve learned that many traditional cultures worked pretty much that way. “I store meat in the belly of my brother,” one Amazonian tribe member told an anthropologist who asked him how/where he stored the meat he couldn’t eat right away.

Since that time, also, I have met people who, although living in the USA, are living some version of this, as I myself have come to do.

One fellow permaculturist only keeps a very small bank account of maybe a couple hundred or few hundred dollars; he constantly has his money out in his community in zero-interest micro-loans. He owns land but he shares it extensively with his communities.

Another fellow permaculturist is nomadic but always has places where people want him to come stay and teach. He earns money but gives away whatever he doesn’t need.

I myself have chosen to “own” a house, right now at least. (I bought the house in 2018 with money inherited when my Mom passed. Most of the money was in the form of mutual funds. I immediately took the money out of Wall Street and used most of it to buy my house. Most of the rest, I have invested in my business, or tithed to my community in various ways. Full disclosure, I did spend $5,000 on a brand-new Honda Rebel 300 motorcycle. I’m also a part “owner” of a permaculture farm but am not seeking any financial return on that. I have some money left over still, and feel a duty to use this money wisely and carefully — for the planet; out of respect for my parents; out of care for future generations; out of care for current generations who are struggling. Some years back, I came to a point of being adamantly against “making money off of money”; I only want to make money from my own direct work. I have a combination of hand-work and brain-work that I plan to take me into old age right up til it’s my time to die.)

The thing that makes “owning” a home work for me (spiritually, emotionally, and materially) is that I share it with other people, and have a strong intention to make a secure joyful home for people, and keep the rent low to just meet basic expenses of the house.

But: A person can have quite a huge house, and live alone, and have a lot of stuff, and still be practicing nonaccumulation; radical sharing. There’s no cookie-cutter formula.

Other things I’ve noticed that have influenced me: I personally have known several millionaires. They were more scared about money and retirement and old age and longterm care and stuff of that sort, than people I know who have no money, no health insurance, no retirement fund etc. This is not to say that people shouldn’t desire to have material comfort. build security and peace of mind; just that money doesn’t seem to give it and can sometimes even undermine it.

To be continued, more later.

Further exploration:

Sacred Economics: Chapter 19, Nonaccumulation (Pt. 20) (Charles Eisenstein; published on realitysandwich.com). “I have in this book articulated a conception of wealth as flow rather than accumulation. … Generally speaking, natural systems are
characterized by resource flow, not accumulation. … An important theme in all my work is the integration of hunter-gatherer attitudes into technological society — a completion and not a transcendence of the past. I have already laid out in this book the monetary equivalent of nonaccumulation (decayingcurrency), of nonownership (elimination of economic rents), and ofunderproduction (leisure and degrowth). Tellingly, many people feel a pull toward these values on a personal level too, such as in the movement toward ‘voluntary simplicity’ and in questioning the nature of work. Ahead of their time, these people have pioneered a new and ancient way of being that will soon become the norm. Bill Kauth, founder of the Sacred Warriors and other organizations, is an internationally known social inventor and a rich man, though not in any conventional sense. He owns very little: an old car, some personal possessions, as far as I know no financial assets. Many years ago, he tells me, he took a personal vow he calls ‘income topping,’ pledging never to earn more than $24,000 in a year. And yet, he says,’I have eaten in some of the world’s best restaurants, traveled to many of the earth’s beautiful places, had an incredibly rich life.'”

Sacred Economics: Chapter 20, Right Livelihood and Sacred Investing (Part 21). “What I am going to describe is far more radical than “socially conscious investing” or “ethical investing.” While these ideas are steps in the right direction, they harbor an internal contradiction. By seeking a positive financial return, they perpetuate the conversion of the world into money. … I am not advocating an age of altruism in which we forgo personal benefit for the common good. I foresee, rather, a fusion of personal benefit and common good. For example, when I give money to people in my community, I create feelings of gratitude that might motivate a return gift to me or an onward gift to someone else. Either way, I have strengthened the community that sustains me. When we are embedded in gift community, we naturally direct our gratitude not only towardthe proximate giver but toward the community as a whole, and we take care of its neediest members (gifts seek needs). Our desire to give may very well express itself as a gift to someone in the community who has given us nothing herself. Therefore, we can see any gift, even one without expectation of direct return, as a form of ‘investment.’ We are still taking naked money and, if it is a good investment, clothing it in something fine.”

• And here is the Sacred Economics homepage on Reality Sandwich, where Eisenstein has posted his whole book chapter by chapter.

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