Stop calling young people “lazy”

Hey There Fellow Boomers!
BOTH of the following can be true:

1) We worked/work hard at our jobs back in the day.

AND

2) Young people these days have it really tough! Back when we first started our working lives, a lot of the conditions were a heck of a lot more sane & reasonable than they are now.

How many jobs were you hired for pretty much on the spot and you could just start working that day and go home with money in your pocket? Me, a lot!

Back in the day, did they check your credit rating and all kinds of aspects of your personal life? No! And come to think of it, when I look back, I’m not sure anyone ever even checked my driver’s license or cared if I lived anywhere!

Back in the day, did any employer ever ask you to write up an entire marketing plan or entire something for their company as part of the selection process? And maybe they never even got back to you after you submitted the elaborate documents? I don’t know about you, but this never happened to me back in the day.

Or, if job conditions at a certain place seemed like too much, were you ever not able to just walk down the street and immediately get a job somewhere else? I never had a problem! Back then.

Not that we haven’t struggled, and not that we haven’t been through macroeconomic slumps too. But what’s going on now is over the top. Various types of jobs that used to be relatively easy peasy slacker jobs are not anymore!

I’m a hard worker, but a lot of what I’m hearing about these days is absolutely insane and ridiculous, and I wouldn’t want to work either!!! Anytime I have a chance to support a young person in refusing disgusting and ridiculous job conditions, I totally will!

(And the screenshot below is barely the tip of the iceberg. There’s so much more, and I’m sure a lot of you older people who are still out in the job world have seen it too. I’m lucky because I’ve been self-employed for 30 years so I’ve been somewhat insulated. I have had numerous side jobs over the years, but none that I couldn’t afford to walk away from.)

Text from screenshot of Facebook post: Calling this generation lazy when we don’t want to sit through 3 interviews for one company, wages haven’t caught up with cost of living, and we are constantly trying new side hustles, is wild.

And on NextDoor yesterday, someone said that people shouldn’t have to work three jobs just to have a roof over their head. Whereupon a fellow Boomer replied that they should up their skills so as to have skills that are worth enough to not need three jobs.

I responded:

But things are a lot different now than they were when you and I were young. I can tell by your statement that you are of a “certain age group,” same as I am.

It used to be easy to afford a small room or apartment even on just one job.

Shoot, I used to be able to afford my own apartment as a college student even just working a summer job! And that summer job helped pay my tuition as well! Same with a lot of other people I knew.

And then out in the working world, it was easy to get a really nice apartment and have a car, buy groceries, have nice clothes etc. just on one job. And I even picked a really low-paying profession, editorial work!

Things are not the same today; the structure of the economy has changed over the decades, and that change has accelerated over the past few years.

Plus, working conditions have gotten a lot more harsh on people. The delivery & warehouse jobs, for example, are crazy. When I hear what people nowadays have to deal with as far as employer expectations, I find it shocking.

Now granted, trade school and community college was and is available and a wonderful option. There are trade schools that people can attend tuition-free and then have a job placement right out of school.

But my point here is that when people are struggling, we older people should see the bigger picture, and offer them encouragement rather than shaming them for things that are a phenomenon of the larger economy.

PS. I say I’m a hard worker and it’s true, but, when it comes to bulls*** requirements and inhumane conditions, I am incredibly lazy and defiant and able to find any work-around to avoid it! And I’m known for loudly encouraging others to do the same. Resist!!!

People get to exist

There is a meme, in various versions, going around saying in a nutshell, “I never had any kind of problem with ‘you people’ until you got up in my face.”

“You people” Meaning anybody not cis, het, white, fundamentalist Christian, etc.

I remember reading a quote somewhere, it was really good and I will post it here if I can find it.

The gist was, if you were always accustomed to being the dominant mainstream, then any appearance of something/someone outside the dominant mainstream is going to seem to be threatening your existence.

Any amount of progress feels like a threat.

This is something best dealt with as emotional processing, not as trying to influence public policy to go backward.

Diversity is a prime organizing principle in nature. And, when we troubleshoot the failures of human systems, monoculture a.k.a. lack of diversity is a very common culprit in all sorts of problems.

On this note, recently on NextDoor someone posted one of those “humorous” dog-whistle posts mocking the idea of asking what someone’s pronouns are. The post ended up getting reported & removed, and quite rightly so.

But someone on the thread asked a legitimate question, which I didn’t know how to answer. And that is, how do you explain this to kids?

I didn’t have a good answer, so I did some searching and found a good answer for them. And for anyone else who wonders how to explain pronouns to kids. Come to think of it, this works for adults too!

(Scary Mommy on how to answer the question, is that a boy or a girl? https://www.scarymommy.com/how-to-answer-question-is-that-boy-or-girl )

Accompanying the text is a little cartoon. Showing little colored geometric shape creatures that are supposed to be a child and two adults. The child (small circle) is asking, “Is that a boy or a girl?”

Answers:

• I don’t know. Does it matter?

• We don’t need to know someone’s gender pronouns until they tell us.

• We can’t tell by the way someone looks and that’s okay.

• Until they tell us otherwise, we can use “they” to talk about them.

The approach shown in this picture works for adults too! Simple and to the point. I am memorizing it and using it from now on!

PS. At first it was a revelation to me that I don’t necessarily have the right to know someone’s gender just because I’m curious. I believe that this wrongheaded notion on my part arose from one of the 15 pillars of supremacy culture, known as “the right to comfort.” As in, I have the right to be soothed and not feel uncertainty or whatever kind of feeling it would bring up in me to not know someone’s gender, be able to classify them in some tidy box etc. I didn’t even realize I still had some of this programming lingering within me. What a relief to drop that!

(Credit: @teachingoutsidethebinary ; and @growingwithmxt )

Labor Day musings part 2

Yesterday, in this blog and also on my Facebook page, I opened up an exploration regarding why and how some of the less well-to-do segments of US society seem to be voting against their interests, according to the blue Democrats.

I’m pasting here some additional comments that I added to the Facebook threads.

An internet stranger on a Democrat friend’s feed commented that my thoughts about looking deeper and getting curious might be “all good in a world of magical thinking.” And that trying to reason with “those people” is like reasoning with a drunk; that they have imbibed the Kool-Aid for decades etc. etc. And she said good luck with that.

My first response was to feel very offended at what I perceived as condescension coming from this person. But before firing off some sort of snarky reply, I just took a deep breath. And remembered the whole idea of what I was trying to do.

And I wrote:

I don’t need “luck.” I have research skills, and I talk with people. [Note added later: talking with people is actually part of research. It’s often overlooked.] Magical thinking is something I’m definitely not into. I’m into practicality. And, in the past 24 hours, it’s actually become pretty clear to me how it came about that these red voters departed from the Democrat party. It’s not rocket science. All I did was refresh my memory about some of the Democrat policy shifts (which may have been well-intentioned but didn’t turn out the way they were intended), and also look back on the experience of prior generations of my own extended family.

Are things irreparably broken? No! It’s amazing what one can accomplish just by listening. I’m not into crying over spilt milk. Everything is an experiment. Government leaders try different policies, and sometimes they work, and sometimes they don’t.

When people are in fear of losing their livelihoods and being economically insecure, it’s hard for anybody to keep a level head. This goes for anyone of any political ideology. (ADDED LATER: Especially when this fear is based in actual reality, as has been amply documented. Whole towns losing their economic base when a factory shut down in the wake of NAFTA etc.)

On a meta note: Comments from Internet strangers can feel jarring. Because we’re not getting to hear each other’s voices or look at each other as we speak. If anything about this comment I am making in response to your comment feels threatening or unkind or attacking, or lacking in empathy toward you and whatever your circumstances are, please know that is not my intention.

And a bit later I added a further comment:

Adding to this comment. So, the Democrat policy shifts in the 1980s – mainly embracing supply-side economics; and lowering trade barriers — ended up creating economic hardship for people. And the hardship fell on people selectively. One of the best ways I heard it summed up was in one of the articles I linked, where they said a small community could be devastated when the textile factory in its town closed down and hundreds of residents lost their jobs; meanwhile millions of people all over the country enjoyed marginally lower prices on clothing.

So the policy shift created economic hardship and insecurity, and fears of more to come.

So then what do people do when they have economic fear and hardship? Well, experience and history shows that there is a tendency to reach for the seemingly comfortable solution of an authoritarian strongman. Tough on crime, tough on immigration. Xenophobia runs high; immigrants get blamed for everything. And the whole root is a deep-seated insecurity about the very roof over one’s head.

We also cannot underestimate the emotional impact of how betrayed the miners and textile workers and auto workers and all must have felt at this shift in policy, to global competition and trickle-down economics. Neo-liberalism.

This is obviously extremely simplified and generalized, but this is what I see as the pattern that has caused the departure of working-class people from the Democrat party.

That’s the end of the comments that I replied to the individual with.

Here’s another observation that I posted on my own page this morning:

And – I’ve been exploring this issue for a long time, but my burst of reading and exploration over the past 24 hours or so has helped me put together some puzzle pieces that had been puzzling me for a long time.

To wit –

— How it is that the Democrat party can drift so far right, and yet the perceived by the right as being more left than they’ve ever been;

— How it is that many of my Democrat friends are unable to process feedback from a lefty, saying that their party has drifted very far right.

All of this is not about shaming anyone or beating anyone up; it’s about troubleshooting so we (USA) don’t end up continuing to go down the road toward seeking more and more authoritarianism and intolerance.

Oh and here’s yet another aspect, in regard to income inequality and effects of the financialization of the economy:

A lot of wealthy people have 401(k)s. Even some in the middle class have 401(k)s nowadays. So a lot of people are actually benefiting from insane corporate profits.

So a lot of people who identify as middle-class are unknowingly rooting for something that is actually messing up things for the working classes.

With one hand, everyday people are boosting corporations, while with the other hand we are trying to survive the cutthroat world in which the corporations operate.

Further Exploration:

(As time permits, I’m going to copy-paste the magazine article links I shared on my post yesterday. And will include a few excerpts of what I consider the real take-aways.)

— “Workin’ man blues: How the Democrats lost the white working class.” (Deseret News; by Mya Jaradat. Published: April 30, 2023, 8:45 p.m. MDT.) https://www.deseret.com/2023/3/30/23452288/working-class-democrats-politics-socioeconomics/

“Though there were differences between how much centrist Democrats embraced Reaganomics and neoliberalism, by and large, they moved the needle of the party’s economic policies to the right. ‘Once they did that, economically, there is no difference between the Democratic Party and the Republican Party … Clinton was closer to Reagan than he was to the Democratic Party of Roosevelt.’

“There is still much working-class resentment around the North American Free Trade Agreement, which Clinton signed despite wide opposition from labor unions.

“The Democratic Party has taken up the mantle of speaking out about racism, but analysts say that this has come at the expense of addressing the issues that many Americans are most concerned about.
“When you see progressives say things like, ‘It’s all about race,’ they effectively deny that something economically significant has also happened. And that’s sort of like saying (to the white working class) ‘The economic pain that you’re feeling isn’t real …

(The article also goes on to point out that the Dems alienated some Black people and immigrants with this narrative as well, as people do not like being portrayed as victims. They prefer the narrative of hope; of the American dream being attainable by all.)

— Why and Where the Working Class Turned Right. A new book documents the lost (and pro-Democratic) world of Pennsylvania steelworkers and how it became Republican.
BY HAROLD MEYERSON JANUARY 8, 2024. https://prospect.org/politics/2024-01-08-why-working-class-turned-right/

— Why so many blue-collar workers drifted away from Democratic Party. Christy DeSmith, Harvard Staff Writer; October 26, 2023. https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2023/10/why-so-many-blue-collar-workers-drifted-from-democrats/

— “How Democrats Alienated Their Working-Class Voter Base.” Yaakov Kornreich; August 23, 2023. https://yated.com/how-democrats-alienated-their-working-class-voter-base/

— “Democrats are replacing Republicans as the preferred party of the very wealthy.” (Lee Drutman; vox.com; June 3, 2016.) https://www.vox.com/polyarchy/2016/6/3/11843780/democrats-wealthy-party

— This piece by Laura Carlsen in the opinion pages of the New York Times from 2013 provides a good overview of how NAFTA free trade agreement harmed Mexico and in the end came back to haunt the USA. https://www.nytimes.com/roomfordebate/2013/11/24/what-weve-learned-from-nafta/under-nafta-mexico-suffered-and-the-united-states-felt-its-pain

“Nafta has cut a path of destruction through Mexico. … As heavily subsidized U.S. corn and other staples poured into Mexico, producer prices dropped and small farmers found themselves unable to make a living. Some two million have been forced to leave their farms since Nafta.

“At the same time, consumer food prices rose, notably the cost of the omnipresent tortilla. As a result, 20 million Mexicans live in “food poverty”. … Transnational industrial corridors in rural areas have contaminated rivers and sickened the population and typically, women bear the heaviest impact. … The agreement drastically restructured Mexico’s economy and closed off other development paths by prohibiting protective tariffs, support for strategic sectors and financial controls.

“Nafta’s failure in Mexico has a direct impact on the United States. Although it has declined recently, jobless Mexicans migrated to the United States at an unprecedented rate of half a million a year after Nafta.

“Workers in both countries lose when companies move, when companies threaten to move as leverage in negotiations, and when nations like Mexico lower labor rights and environmental enforcement to attract investment.

“Farmers lose when transnational corporations take over the land they supported their families on for generations. Consumers lose with the imposition of a food production model heavy on chemical use, corporate concentration, genetically modified seed and processed foods. Border communities lose when lower environmental standards for investors affect shared ecosystems.”

Labor Day musings

(This post is prompted by a meme that’s been widely popular among some “blue liberals” as the election draws nearer. It’s a graphic showing a color-coded list of the 12 US states with the highest poverty rates, and the fact that, other than New Mexico, they are all politically “red.” Oftentimes this graphic is accompanied by some commentary like, “I don’t understand why people are voting against their best interests.”)

To which I say: Time to look deeper. It might give a burst of smug righteousness — or maybe frustration? — to look down on the “other” side, and assume they are “voting against their own best interests” because they are “uneducated” and “don’t know better.” But if we want real change, we have to actually put our hearts into understanding where people are coming from.

I’ve made ample posts about this general topic over the past few months and even longer, on ALL of my platforms. And I’ve shared information from people who are much better informed than I am, and express things much better.

But some people who I consider to be roughly in the camp of “fellow liberals” (even though I’m technically NPA/libertarian/lefty anarchist) get defensive and don’t want to hear it. I’ll keep plugging away.

We have all been part of the problem in our own way, and it can be painful to confront that.

#LaborDay #InconvenientTruths

More thoughts as they came to me:

What I’ve noticed is that a lot of the problem comes down to extreme income inequality. Things have become such that it’s almost like fellow Americans are living in completely different worlds. Even within the category of people who identify as a middle class. There are different income/asset clumps which are almost like different worlds. And it’s even more extreme on a total global level. The ramifications are staggering. Ecological, social, economic, political.

Suggested action steps if this resonates with you:

— Check out Degrowth – it’s urgent (public Facebook group, lots of informational posts)

— Join Degrowth – join the revolution (private group, and probably a main cell of the Degrowth movement)

— Read these 2 books by Jason Hickel: THE DIVIDE; and LESS IS MORE

On my TikTok account, I have two pinned posts. One is “15 pillars of supremacy culture.” The other is “14 early warning signs of fascism.” I have them pinned for a reason.

They may seem different but they are deeply related. Interestingly, the one about fascism has gotten many more views & likes than the one about white supremacy culture.

So how did the Democrats become no longer the party that working people felt represented by? Following are links to four articles; they were the first four search results that popped up when I typed in google, “how the Democrats alienated working class people”:

— How the Democrats lost the white working class. Published: April 30, 2023, 8:45 p.m. MDT. https://www.deseret.com/2023/3/30/23452288/working-class-democrats-politics-socioeconomics/

— Why and Where the Working Class Turned Right. A new book documents the lost (and pro-Democratic) world of Pennsylvania steelworkers and how it became Republican.
BY HAROLD MEYERSON JANUARY 8, 2024. https://prospect.org/politics/2024-01-08-why-working-class-turned-right/

— Why so many blue-collar workers drifted away from Democratic Party. Christy DeSmith, Harvard Staff Writer; October 26, 2023. https://news.harvard.edu/gazette/story/2023/10/why-so-many-blue-collar-workers-drifted-from-democrats/

— How Democrats Alienated Their Working-Class Voter Base. Yaakov Kornreich; August 23, 2023. https://yated.com/how-democrats-alienated-their-working-class-voter-base/

There are many more results as well. Hope this helps!

— And another article link just in from a friend, with this comment: “There may be a more nefarious reason why white working class didn’t vote Democrat.” https://www.theatlantic.com/business/archive/2016/12/hillary-clinton-working-class/509477/

Class definitions according to income and net worth. Source: https://finance.yahoo.com/news/dincome-fall-americas-lower-middle-122100515.html (I found similar figures on other websites too.)

BY INCOME:

“According to the Census Bureau’s Income in the United States: 2022 report, … household income levels for each class level are as follows:

Lower class: less than or equal to $30,000

Lower-middle class: $30,001 – $58,020

Middle class: $58,021 – $94,000

Upper-middle class: $94,001 – $153,000

Upper class: greater than $153,000″ …

BY NET WORTH:

“Some finance experts prefer to view classes in terms of net worth because they believe it accounts for people’s financial habits. If you have a high income but spend much of what you make, you may not have much to show for it. Based on U.S. census data from 2021, here’s the median net worth of each class:

Lower class: $12,000

Lower-middle class: $61,260

Middle class: $145,200

Upper-middle class: $269,100

Upper class: $805,400″

Speaking of Labor Day … Watch “Fight Like Hell” – The Testimony of Mother Jones at home FOR FREE this Labor Day Weekend. From midnight on Fri Aug 30 through midnight on Mon Sept 2. (The free link may not be working anymore. But even if you missed the free viewing window, this film is well worth watching.)

Go to Bullfrog Films: vimeopro.com/bullfrogfilms/… Then copy and paste this password: FLFF1GHT

I watched it last night. Very powerful and moving. A lot of people might be tempted to only take away from this film “oh what a relief — things are so much better today” … BUT there is a deeper truth.

The fact of the matter is that many people today in the USA, and of course around the world, are being forced to work under absolutely inhumane conditions.

We can be grateful for the progress, while also recognizing that there is much more that needs to be done.

PS. I actually see my low-footprint lifestyle as a kind of labor strike. It’s a strike by those of us who can afford to withhold our labor; refuse unreasonable conditions.

As I am fond of repeating, one of the first pieces of advice I heard when I started learning Permaculture was, “Reduce your need to earn.”

Or as Henry David Thoreau put it, “A man is rich in proportion to the things which he can afford to let alone.”

And maybe our withholding and refusal of our labor under unreasonable terms will help give leverage to the majority who can’t strike, or feel unable to risk doing so.

Driveway evolution; urban slowness; operatic harassment

Musings on my seaside urban driveway nature-world’s evolution; the nourishing quality of urban slowness; the petty brutality of operatic harassment and more

Sometimes when I get discouraged about my progress or work, I will get some small reminder that cheers me up a bit and encourages me to keep going. In this case, the reminder came yesterday via a Facebook memory from four years ago.

First picture is my driveway four years ago; the other pictures are from today and yesterday.

I have sought to create a little bit of an urban nature oasis, very small scale and intimate, that would feel a little bit like a coastal Florida version of how it used to feel living in Japan or walking around cities in England or the European continent (back when I still traveled).

In my spaces, I see nature not as an escape from the urban environment; but an integrated part of it.

The other day when talking with a fellow civic activist about ADUs and thickening-up our beautiful but depopulated historic neighborhoods, I realized fully for the first time that I could never move back to Japan even if the opportunity were there.

One, I would miss my siblings and nieces too much even though I only see them once a year. At least now we are on the same side of an ocean, and the same coast of the USA.

But also, I realized fully, maybe for the first time, that I could never just go live someplace where I once lived or visited, just because I felt comfortable and alive and aesthetically nurtured there.

I realized that for me, part of my happiness and calling lies in bringing sweetness and a kind of slow urban intimacy HERE and NOW to a place that I feel would be nourished by it.

Here in most parts of the USA, the roads are wide; designed to prioritize monster vehicles and speeding as fast as possible.

Shops are set up for huge bulk cardboard-food shopping, and food takeout is set up for drive-through and drive-out. Minimal interaction, no messy inefficiency, pure speed.

It’s pretty much the opposite of the slow intimate urban feel that nurtured me in my era of working and traveling outside of the USA. (Late 1980s-mid 1990s mostly.)

Patrick Lydon, a blogger I know of via his talks and presentations at The Nature of Cities (virtual worldwide conference) this past time, has a couple of really wonderful pieces about traveling in Japan. He talks about slow and urban in the same sentence. (Check out Patrick Lydon, The Possible City, he is on Substack as a lot of activist/writers are these days.)

Lydon and his partner Sujee (I believe she’s Korean) now live in Korea, but lived in Japan for some years before that, and recently took a trip back to Japan via the ferry from Pusan to Shimonoseki.

His writing about his Japan life and travels really brought back a lot of memories for me.

The way he describes how his tiny streets nurtured life and art had me a little bit nostalgic and teary for a couple of days. I sort of felt unmoored, the way I do sometimes when I get to missing Japan. But Japan is someone else’s country; and my place is here.

Slow and urban weren’t two words I would’ve thought to pair before I heard Lydon mention them, but once I read it, it totally clicked in me. There is a slowness, a delicious messiness in dense urban spaces. The sense that something matters more than speed and efficiency. A density of interaction. A human-scale aesthetic intimacy. Yes, even in the most rushed time of day in Manhattan or whatever, there’s just a certain feel that makes it feel OK and exciting to walk and just be. And there is a feeling of being sheltered, not exposed on some windswept plain of asphalt and merciless utilitarianism.

In Donna Lyons’ highly addictive crime novel series, the Commissario Brunetti books, the characters never tire of walking around their native Venice and admiring the streets and shops, magnificent art and architecture.

I fell in love with Daytona Beach and the people here. The early part of my falling-in-love was visual/aesthetic: I was grabbed by the narrow streets and charming houses and commercial buildings that constituted the old bones of an old pre-car-dependent neighborhoods. The neighborhoods between the A1A and Nova Road. They were designed for a community-centered life before cars and cavernous, harshly lit big-box stores dominated everything.

I say my early falling in love with Daytona Beach was the visual aesthetic. But there was additionally a later, deeper falling in love, which had to do with the people and the culture of this city specifically. As distinct from the neighboring cities.

I don’t necessarily have anything against the neighboring cities except when their leaders openly disparage Daytona Beach from the dais of their commission and board meetings. But my love and loyalty and heart is with Daytona Beach and the people here.

I want to bring and share a magic to this place. Some of the magic I’ve experienced in my life. A lot of which is centered on artistic and aesthetic experiences that I’ve had the luxury to be able to digest over many decades.

On a seemingly unrelated but actually related note, this morning on my beach / neighborhood walk I stopped for a coffee at the 7-Eleven as I sometimes do even though I have perfectly good coffee at home.

And, as in recent weeks, was greeted by the robotic flashing blue light of our little 7-Eleven community’s newest addition: a 20-foot-tall metal police robot effigy thing. Standing tall and flashing its blue cyclops eye. The spindly metal creature is mounted on a trailer parked at the corner of the parking lot, and in its hollow recorded voice it repeats: “For your safety, this parking lot is being recorded on film.”

This does not in fact make me feel safe.

Neither does the blaring opera music that spews from the outdoor speakers installed on each side of the low brick building of the convenience store. Opera music meant to discourage homeless people from napping at the sides of the building.

Now, opera has just never been my kind of music, I just don’t really get into it. Other than a couple of the humorous Gilbert and Sullivan operas that I always get a little chuckle from. (“Never? Well, hardly ever!”)

But, my Mom and Dad loved opera. It was one of their treats. So to see opera music being used in this way as a weapon was heartbreaking. It was one Italian tenor this morning, maybe even Pavarotti, my dad’s favorite.

Also, my cousin Jim Kay, an artist and educator born and raised, and returned in midlife and lived out his 87 years, in Fall River Massachusetts, taught art and dance to kids, largely immigrant children who came from low-income families.

When he started to try to introduce classical music and ballet to the kids, at first they scoffed. They wanted to hear hip-hop and all. But Jim took them on a bus to go see some performances of opera and classical music and ballet at the performance hall, and they loved it.

I’m sure cousin Jim and my parents would be heartbroken to see classical art forms weaponized as just one little extra touch of cruelty and reminder of the brutal aspects of our culture that seem to have taken over in recent years. The aspect of our culture that not only normalizes but actually encourages and rewards punching-down on those more vulnerable than ourselves.

And I walked home in tears, wanting to make a sobby video for you guys, but ended up being drawn to write, and being reminded of why I prefer to be mainly a writer rather than mainly a public speaker. Because if I had made a video I would possibly still be sobbing right now. Whereas something about writing allows me to get it out and share it in a way that might be helpful and nurturing to somebody.

Well, thanks for coming on this journey with me if you have read this far.

You can see this post with the pictures here on my Facebook page Art & Design by jenny nazak.

Relinquishing plastic-laundry-jug guilt

This is one of those eco stories that people are either going to think is really cool and thrifty, or turn up their noses at.

Confession: I have not purchased laundry detergent in maybe 10 years or more. It’s not that I don’t like clean clothes, it’s just that it’s really easy to get a steady supply of laundry detergent for free.

How? By picking up an empty jug from someone’s curbside recycling bin in your neighborhood. Most of the time, the amount of detergent that’s left in the jug after it seems “empty” is actually quite a considerable quantity, as becomes apparent once you add a bit of water and shake it up. The leftover detergent, diluted in this manner, will sometimes be enough to wash several loads of laundry.

What ended up happening for me, though, is that I acquired multiple jugs full of diluted detergent but I have no hope of using up in this lifetime. It’s just too much! The smell of commercial detergent is super intense and I don’t even have enough laundry to use it all up.

And my skin allergies are starting to act up. So, it’s probably going to be Bronner’s and baking soda, essential oils etc. from now on for me. Or maybe soap-flakes (packaged in a cardboard box) if those still exist, those were very handy and seemed more gentle. And then the box can be composted.

I now additionally just have to put my foot down with myself, and refrain from feeling like I have to rescue all those “not really empty jugs” from people’s recycling, and add water and properly use up the product.

It’s just way more than one person could ever use. But, if you want to save money, try this weird trick. You’ll also be keeping countless of these thick sturdy plastic jugs out of landfill over your lifetime.

Saving 7 or 10 bucks a month, or however much this stuff costs — I literally have no idea anymore since I haven’t bought it in so many years — may not make a difference to most people.

But for some of us, who are (either voluntarily or involuntarily) living on a very low income, It makes a huge difference! Plus it’s just really really satisfying to not be having to buy this stuff, and not having to think about the endless piles of thick plastic containers which mostly probably don’t get recycled.

BTW there are reuses for these type of jugs; I have written about that too on this page and in my blog. My favorite dust pans were made by cutting up large-size detergent jugs.

You can also hang out in some of the many reuse and non-consumerist groups to get tips on finding reuses/upcycles.

PS. Despite the very precise instructions on the container of detergent how much you need to use, you actually can use a lot less if you want. Particularly helpful if you or your family have chemical sensitivities. We get to decide how much product we need to get our clothes clean. And, in case it’s not clear, I am not advocating for people to start using commercial detergent if they’re not already. I’m only posting this as a way to help people save money and reduce their footprint.

PPS. You can see this post with a photo here on my DEEP GREEN Facebook page.

BWTM (But Wait, There’s More!): And, Interesting story, an older gentleman from the Philippines once told me that he used to be one of the workers who were hired to wash the uniforms of the US Navy when a ship would come in. They washed in nothing but salt water! They literally immersed the uniforms in the sea, and then line dried them! The uniforms, linens, etc., came out all nice and white and crisp.

I actually do a version of this with some of my really grubby landscaping clothes and other outdoor clothes. I just run into the ocean for my dip with those clothes on. And when I get them home, I wring them out and hang them on the line. Or, just hang them on the line still dripping, which I call “ironing by clothesline.” No additional washing stage, no soap. I’ve only done that with my outdoor-labor clothes so far, but I’m going to try and experiment with some of my indoor clothes as well.

Creative & occupational freedom

“There is too much talent trapped in poverty.”

So said a meme on Facebook.

And this is one major reason why I have always been so hardcore about refusing to buy/own certain things even if it’s a bit less convenient. Every little bit less that we can manage to need, is a little bit of freedom we carve out for ourselves to do our real work.