Stop escaping — Let’s stay home and fix things in our own areas

“This is one of the main reasons why I love to spend time in Europe.”

The above comment was written by a fellow white boomer, In response to a post from Revitalize, or Die, contrasting an ancient Italian city with a USA suburban development taking up the same amount of space.

My response:

I get that, and realize that is the case for many members of our generation (the boomers).

My sad react here is because I wish more of us (who belong to the most-resourced generation in history) would have used, and be using, more of our energy and other resources to making things better in our own cities/towns/neighborhoods instead of escaping to the cute quaint streetscape countries. — Countries that we are ruining, bith culturally and ecologically, with our mass travel.

What is it that keeps us from insisting on beauty and charm and REAL LIVABILITY in our own places? What keeps us from making it a priority, above cars and shallow convenience and all else?

On a personal note — For this reason, I no longer engage in overseas travel (The last time I went overseas was in 2004, a month in Tokyo, and it was for work).

Eco note: And I no longer fly, period. Not even domestically. My last domestic flight was in 2017, for a family funeral. Before that, my last donestic flight was in 2010, work-related.

And I limit my travel in general, to visiting family once a year (usu by train or bus). Beauty and charm has to start at home, and it’s arm in arm with protecting the planet.

In response to my comment, fellow white boomer mentioned his frustration at the fact that sprawl development has persisted despite all of his efforts to speak to local government.

I replied:

Norman Lane I totally get that about feeling like we are wasting our time trying to prevent sprawl. The thing I’m realizing after so many years of speaking at commission meetings and so on it’s just that we need to make our own immediate neighborhoods more like the beauty and charm that captivates us in whatever those overseas places are. The more I do that, the less I feel the need to escape to some more charming and cute and walkable and cultured place. The truth is culture has to start here at home.

BTW I am here because I felt called here for my work. As a freelance ecological educator and activist. What brought you guys to Florida, and would moving to a more dense and walkable city be an option for you? Even right here in the USA there are a number of such cities. Especially for people of means. although actually now that I am thinking about it, a person doesn’t have to be able to afford Manhattan to be able to live in a dense walkable place. A lot of smaller towns still have their walkability, plus many other attributes besides. My friend and colleague and Living FREE co-author Eric Brown – Author has been instrumental in feeding the movement for walkability and local living in a rather small town that still has urban qualities.

The government isn’t going to stop sprawl. But we ourselves can take back our own neighborhoods by supporting local businesses, local food supply chain, introducing art & beauty into our immediate neighborhoods etc.

In my neighborhood we have noticed a significant difference over the past few years, and it has actually accelerated in the past couple of years. We are becoming a genuinely charming and more walkable neighborhood although we have a long way to go. And, the neighborhood has the bones of the old walkable place still. The beautiful 1920s and 1940s houses by the sea next to an old Main Street etc. We’re just doing a little bit of retro retooling to take back that walkable community aspect from the aberration of the past few years.

(BTW I live Daytona Beach side in the main street area. But I see similar things happening in Ormond.)

on a related note – it takes a lot of discipline for people who own a car to resist driving everywhere and also to resist shopping in WM, CC, and other big box stores. Not owning a car, I find the most wonderful small businesses such as my organic produce ladies who buy up produce from many local farms and then deliver it to our houses! Talk about a win-win. I’m going to take a picture of today’s delivery.

As a bonus, all of this comes loose and not wrapped in plastic that then has to go into the trash. The ladies bring it in reusable cloth bags and I transfer it directly to my reusable containers and refrigerate.

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***In case my link above doesn’t work, I am also copy-pasting the original post from revitalize, or die:

“I saw a meme this week showing a massive Houston highway interchange next to an aerial of Siena, Italy. Same amount of land. Siena fits about 30,000 people into that footprint. Houston fits zero. And they probably cost about the same to build.

“People get defensive when America gets compared to Europe. They’ll say it isn’t fair, the timelines are different, the history is different. All true. But humans aren’t different. We keep excusing our built environment instead of asking what people actually need. Americans aren’t Europeans, but we all run on the same hardware.

“Density gives people the chance to walk and humans are built to walk. Six miles a day is what our bodies were designed for. Walking boosts physical and mental health and people naturally seek it out. When we design places where no one can walk, we shouldn’t be shocked when the health consequences pile up.

“Density also increases human interaction. People need other people. When connection disappears, isolation, distrust, and resentment fill the space. You can see the results unfolding in the culture every day.

“Then there’s quality of life. More density means less driving, less searching for parking, less time doing chores you didn’t ask for. It means more time walking, sitting outside, grabbing coffee, riding a bike, and actually living. Even die-hard drivers should want density because it reduces congestion. More people walking means more open road for you.

“Dense places cost less too. Cities spend less on sprawling infrastructure. Households spend less on fuel. Energy use drops. It’s more efficient across the board.

“Community attachment strengthens. When you know your neighbors, you feel rooted. You get involved. You stay. That stability boosts property values and civic pride.

“The density-crime myth doesn’t hold up. Design, economics, and social supports matter far more. And most people feel safer when other people are around.

“Businesses benefit as well. The more people nearby, the more customers. Sprawl helps national chains. Walkable neighborhoods help local owners. Redesign a car-dominated street for people and sales usually increase. Foot traffic is the lifeblood of real business districts.

“People panic about shifting space from cars to humans, but the downside never shows up. Drivers might slow down, which isn’t exactly a national tragedy. Meanwhile you get stronger communities, lower public costs, healthier residents, and better local economies.

“And honestly, density is just more fun. Life gets easier when everything is close. It feels calmer, more social, more vibrant, and far less stressful. A little density goes a long way in improving physical, mental, social, and fiscal health. It’s also what people increasingly want.

“If none of this is convincing, that’s fine. Keep building highway interchanges the size of Italian cities and pretending it’s normal. But don’t expect new residents to line up. Mall-towns aren’t the future.

We can’t rebuild Siena, but we can stop building Siena-sized interchanges. We can do better, and at this point, we have to.”

Stocks & flows

Flows will get you through times of no stocks, better than stocks will get you through times of no flows.

A big part of why I answered this multiple-choice survey the way i did.

Added Later – in this post I was not requesting advice. I am going to say what I would choose, and all of you are totally invited to say what you would choose.

For many reasons, both personal and collective, I have no desire to make six figures. #Degrowth


I would actually only pick one of these — i would choose
2) $2500 per month. That’s a huge amount of money for me, it’s twice what I live on now.

If I didn’t already have my mortgage-free house, I would also pick

6) $100,000. And would use that toward buying a house.

Regarding the remaining items, and why I don’t need them:

1) Car. I actually prefer not to own a car at all, let alone a new one. I have carefully arranged my life so as not to need to own a car again. You couldn’t give me a car, and couldn’t pay me enough to take on the burdens of car ownership.

3) 800 credit score. Not necessary, I don’t need to borrow money. But actually my credit score is already around that level.

4) 6-figure job. With $2500 a month, NO job is necessary for me! I live on half of that now. So if I were getting 2500 a month I could give away 1000 a month to help & support people who need it.

5) Retire at 40. Well, I’m 63 so that’s kind of moot. Also, I’m not into the concept of retirement. I’m a writer and activist and artist. We don’t retire. (I did terminate my landscaping business, because my knees — as well as my wish to focus on writing — were strongly suggesting that I pass that work on to the younger people. I still enjoy the heck out of landscaping, and do some pretty heavy manual labor – just not on the clock.)

What’s your motivation for being anti-consumerist?

Someone in the non-consumer advocate just asked this question. She said she says three motives: environmental; financial; and just “baked-in” – as in, have always been thrifty (whether because our grandparents went through the Depression, or we feel like we were just born this way, or whatever).

I replied:

Like so many others who responded to this question, I am all three: 1) eco-social; 2) financial; and 3) “baked in” (which for me includes my artistic aesthetic of shabby/stylish).

Oh, and there’s also crafty, I don’t know if that fits into one of the categories, or all, or a fourth. Depends what day it is ha ha!

(BTW this post was clipped from an incredibly enjoyable and practical group called @the non-consumer advocate. It’s a private group, So I cannot share directly here. But you can read the post in its entirety — as well as so many other excellent posts, with extensive comment sections — by joining the group. If you are not already a member, which many of my friends and followers already are! It’s been fun seeing lots of you guys in there.)

I can’t seem to tag the group but the name is the non-consumer advocate. There are about 100,000 members and they live all around the world so you can imagine how rich a resource this group is.

Update:

Oh wow! The group is up to 163K members now! Here is a screenshot so you can visually identify it, and here is the link to the group: https://www.facebook.com/share/g/19zftYJ2Qc/?mibextid=K35XfP

The Non-Consumer Advocate is the name you type into the Facebook search field in case the link does not work for you.

See my post here on Facebook to see the visual screenshot of the group. It’s in the comments.

Cute safety countermeasure for a low branch overhanging the sidewalk

When a branch over the sidewalk hangs low … we have all our DUCKS in a row!!

When a branch of a beautiful sea grape is hanging over the sidewalk, it might be necessary to send a friendly reminder to people who are taller than about 6 foot 2 … And what better way to remind them to … DUCK!!!

Thanks again to a local friend for the adorable duckies she had to spare! I might paint the wine-corks blue (to look like water they are “bobbing afloat” atop of; & provide extra visibility as well). Haven’t decided that yet – wine-corks look so cute in their natural state.

501 House, Trailhead 501, Starshine House, Daytona Beach Permaculture Guild, DBPG headquarters, sidewalk safety, humor, joy, beauty, community-building

PS. Yes, of course, cutting the branch would be an option, and I may end up having to do that, but I am trying this first. We need all the examples we can get, of heat mitigation including shade over sidewalks. It gets crispy over here on the barrier island what with official landscaping practices undermining the sponge and all. Plus the sea-grape is just so beautiful.

And bee-sides all that, sea-grape fruits are a yummy little snack (a bit raisiny tasting), very much worth the effort even though the pit accounts for a large proportion of the total volume of fruit. Note, you need to wait for them to ripen to a purply state, don’t grab them in the pink magenta-y stage, be patient unless you crave a very sour snack!

See pics here, on the Daytona Beach Permaculture guild Facebook page, for as long as the will of Zucc shall allow, <wink>

Any discussion topic can provoke deeper thought and discourse

Cleaning out years-old emails, I found a complaint from someone who felt that the topics of a discussion group were not serious enough.

Here’s the original message:

I expressed to many of you today that i thought the mix of discussion group subjects lately had become way too bland and ‘milk toast’, in light of what is going on around us, everywhere. Topics like memorable vacation experiences, my favorite cruise line, favorite movies, the joys of macrame (?) are so miniscule to deeper and more serious issues confronting us all, geo-politically, culturally,
economically, legally, environmentally, wars and mass migrations, etc. Each week we nominate topic proposals to discuss and then a vote is taken to select just one topic.
I think that DG participants should endeavor to suggest more serious topics.

And here is my response:

Agree – and I trust that Mr. ____ himself has been doing his part to suggest the serious topics he craves.

That said, ANY topic can be used to discuss one’s own deep passions and concerns.

For example, I would use “macrame” to discuss the value of quiet hobbies that induce a peaceful meditative state in the participant and can be a tool for addressing mental-health issues.

I’d also talk about how my grandmothers taught me to sew, knit, and crochet, and how deeply beneficial it has been to my life in so many ways.

And I would use “cruise ships” to talk about gluttony, hyperconsumerism, carbon footprint, and the infantilization of our elder population.

BTW my favorite cruise line would be one that either goes out of business, or uses sailboats or kayaks!

This group email exchange was from back in 2021. Reading it again just now, it occurs to me that many people in USA society have only become even more emotionally fragile over the years. Therefore, many might actually be resistant to more serious topics.

And so it occurs to me that it might actually be a good strategy to choose innocuous topics like macramé, my beloved animal companion, my favorite childhood memory, etc. People can stick to the topic if they prefer, while those who want to go deeper can use the topic as an on-ramp or springboard. And even the people who don’t want to go deep will still end up hearing some deep discussion (assuming they don’t get really upset and walk out of the room).

Thrifty gift idea: mini beach in a sardine tin

Mini “beach” made with an old sardine tin. Elements: string of sparkling blue+green beads; little carved stone turtle (both can serve as components for a bracelet or necklace); local sea shell; local sand; tea-light candle.

The beads are part of a bead collection I have had forever. The tea-light is from a large bag of brand-new tea-lights that somebody was throwing away.

This mini world is one I made for a super kind & compassionate friend who is constantly helping animals and picking up trash off our local beach.

You can see a pic here at my art page, art & design by jenny nazak, on Facebook

This thrifty and one-of-a-kind gift concept could obviously be adapted in many ways. You could make a mini forest, a little urban street scene, an interplanetary space world, or any other beloved pocket universe of your imagining.

good morning full moon

Good morning from our “secret garden”!
Went for a lovely pre-dawn dip under the full moon. Then back at the ranch, heated my coffee-water over the twig-stove and did a little fire ritual as well.

#fullmoon
#ancestors #gratitude
#oceanlife
#urbanpocketparkyard
#HomegrownNationalPark
#StarshineHouse Trailhead501

pix here on my DEEP GREEN facebook page