FAQ: The “Where Should I Live” Question

Versions of this question constantly pop up in my feeds and inboxes; it’s on many people’s minds. Most recently it was the coastal version. Someone’s house is just above the current high-tide line, and they ask, “Should I move? Or will food shortages and other chaos cause more problems first, before the rising sea level?”

My answers:

I live 3 minutes’ walk from the ocean, in the city where my heart is.

Various kinds of disaster will be everywhere in the world. ARE everywhere, now, already. I’m as worried or more about the intensifying droughts and wildfires (happening all over, and possibly someday here, sooner rather than later) as I am about sea-level rise.

My answer to the question of where to live comes down to being in a place I love, with people I love. No use picking the safest place (whatever that even means anymore) if I’m not with people I love, in a place I love.

In a neighborhood and community where I feel I can contribute, and want to. To ease suffering; to maybe bring a bit of joy to the lives of people around me. At the end of it all, the most important thing to me is community. Living in a place that I care about enough to … care about! Care for the land, the water, and all species including my fellow humans.

Ask yourself: Where is your family located. Your friends; your loved ones; anyone and anything you LOVE (including some place where you feel an attachment to the terrain, the trees, the nonhuman inhabitants). Move there. Or, talk with your loved ones and make a plan together. Community is so important, and we in the rich nations have tended to overlook that. I could never be happy just being in a safe place (whatever that is anymore) on my own, or with just one other person. Need community.

And regarding food issues: Granted, coastal areas often have poor soils and a lack of fresh water. But here, we have good ag land just a couple miles inland; we just have to stop the deforestation and stop trashing our waterways.

And, for now, we still have ample rainfall. If we don’t stop the deforestation, rainfall patterns will be disrupted (it is starting already, quite severe in the spring and early fall each year). The coastal vegetation that used to catch moisture and contribute to rainfall has almost all been removed. And, an “aesthetic” of excessive mowing and “cleaning up” our soft shaggy coastal dune landscapes has taken over.

I also keep trying to encourage more people to collect rainwater. It’s a habit we need. I collect it in the wet season (which is increasingly narrow and extreme), and use it through the dry season.

Also note: Humans can grow food in the most extreme circumstances, just about anywhere you can imagine, as long as there is water. The main ingredient in food resilience is community. Everyday people have to band together on the neighborhood, city, regional level. Working with our local governments to the extent that government is willing; otherwise just moving forward together on a grassroots level.

Further Reading:

Temporary Empty Shelves Are Not a Supply Chain Crisis, It is Important to Understand the Difference (Sundance; theconservativetreehouse.com): “These notes … are all precursors that show significant stress in the supply chain. Once these issues are consistently visible, we are going to descend into food instability very quickly, sector by sector, category by category.” Good rundown; go read. The part about the milk jugs just blows me away. Stories of Main Street being gutted and “improved” by Wall Street.

I Lived Through Collapse. America Is Already There (indie.ca; medium.com): “I lived through the end of a civil war — I moved back to Sri Lanka in my twenties, just as the ceasefire fell apart. Do you know what it was like for me? Quite normal. I went to work, I went out, I dated. This is what Americans don’t understand. They’re waiting to get personally punched in the face while ash falls from the sky. That’s not how it happens.”

F.R.E.S.H. Book Fest was an Absolute FEAST

I’m still unpacking the riches! Both tangible and intangible. As a repeat participant in the festival, but only my first time there as an actual author, I am truly honored and humbled by the support that my little book and I received from my fellow authors/creators/entrepreneurs, and from friends who stopped by the festival to shop and enjoy. I have made some wonderful new friends, and also deepened my connections with not-so-new friends and colleagues.

During the two-day festival, I sold EIGHT copies of my book! (Two of them were to friends by mail order, since they live in Texas.) This is more copies of my book than I have ever sold in such a short period of time.

Now, as you know if you have heard me talk or have followed this blog for a minute or more, I do not use numbers and money as my sole criterion of success — or even my top-ranking criterion of success. But. A girl has to pay her bills, and I am not going to pretend not to be delighted by the sales. And even more, by what the sales represent: the fact that my book, my “baby,” has eight new readers! Eight beautiful human beings whose lives my writing will (I hope) enrich and abundify!

As I often say, the F.R.E.S.H. is a crown jewel and one of the things I brag about, regarding my adopted hometown Daytona Beach.

I’ll surely be posting more about the festival and my fellow authors/creators/entrepreneurs as time goes by. But in the meantime, you can see pix of my funky, arty, garage-painted tablecloth setup and my own personal “DEEP GREEN attire” by visiting my FRESH festival post on my book’s Facebook page.

And, you can see many photos (and links, and stories!) of the many, MANY wonderful other participants and their tables and their works by visiting the F.R.E.S.H. Book Festival’s Facebook page. Keep scrolling down the page to see!

Is rainwater collection illegal? Is growing food in your yard illegal?

I have two answers to those questions: 1) Yes, in some places, these basic survival activities are highly restricted, or maybe even illegal. And 2) I don’t care.

If it is illegal where you are, that would be a worthy application for civil disobedience. Are we going to let someone keep us from using natural resources to meet our household and neighborhood’s most basic needs, food and water? Oh, and by the way — there are many ways to grow a food garden that looks like an ornamental garden. And, I hear there are people who teach stealth rainwater collection.

Also: Collecting rainwater by turning the ground into a sponge via plants and mulch is a way to collect a huge amount of water where it’s needed most, where most water consumption of a household takes place: the yard. And turning the ground into an absorbent sponge is a lot easier and less expensive than having a bunch of cisterns. Plus it’s not illegal. So you can avoid legal trouble and make life easier for yourself all at once!

And then there’s this: Government and corporate interests are major contributors to drought and famine. If they want to try and prevent us from retro-fitting basic compassion and sanity and ecological common sense into our communities, they don’t have much of a case.

Really Cool Concept for Virtual Travel

In my life, I am very fortunate to have been able to travel (all over the USA, and to a few other countries as well). Growing up in a military family, travel came with the territory! We drove cross-country from one duty station to the next, and camped at national parks and state parks along the way. I did a good bit of traveling as an adult too: to England, Spain, the Netherlands, Belgium, Mexico, Jamaica, Australia, Malaysia, Canada. I even got to live in Japan for five years, back in the 1990s.

At this point in my life, and in our planet’s life, I am choosing to limit my travel. As I’ve mentioned before, I am just about 100% committed to no more flying. And, I retroactively purchased carbon offsets for every flight I could remember taking in my adult life — and padded the numbers for good measure.

(Update January 2024: I have taken a no-fly pledge. To get more info, and find out how you can do the same, look up the “Flight Free” organization in your part of the world. Flight Free USA, Flight Free UK, etc.)

That said, having had so many opportunities to experience the wonder of different places and cultures, I don’t feel I have any right to tell other people not to travel. (Exception: my many tweets and other posts unabashedly telling country leaders they need to stop having climate conferences in person. That I will stick to! As the meme said, “If there’s any event that should have been done by Zoom …”)

What I can do is share resources for mitigating the eco footprint of your travel if you like. (Gold Standard carbon offsets are the top choice of eco-minded folk I know and trust.)

Also, I can share some powerful writing that helped me understand the damaging cultural and economic impacts of travel, and how I could mitigate those. I learned the term “decolonizing travel”; learned that colonialism infects a lot of our travel; and that tourism causes a lot of the same problems as gentrification. (My favorite article on the problematic aspects of tourism is “Lovely Hula Hands,” an acclaimed piece by Haunani Kay-Trask. Other writing that’s opened my eyes is linked in my “Thoughts on Tourism” series, which you can find in the Further Reading section below.)

OK, so now onward to the immediate topic of this post! This past week I stumbled, via Facebook-wander, upon a company that leads people on virtual trips. The company employs guides that are local to each place, and the virtual tourists get to watch local artisans at work, and then, if they like, buy handcrafted items from the artisans. All virtually!

Now, some people might say, “Meh, that’s not the same as real travel!” And, OK, it’s not. But on the other hand, meatspace travel has always had its serious downsides, both for the visitor and for the host locale.

And look at the times we’re living in now! Pandemics, biospheric crisis, political unrest, and people everywhere feeling really squeezed for time and money. Not to mention the extreme weather that’s grounding more and more flights these days. And let’s face it: Even at the best of times, in-person travel comes with some very real stress factors.

I tend to agree with what I read on the virtual travel company’s site, that virtual is the future of travel. It’s ethical; it’s safe; and I have a feeling I’m going to sign up for a trip sometime! Something like this might just be enough to satisfy my urge to visit (say, for example) Tashkent or Samarkand or Peru or India.

Now to put in a plug for the company. It’s called Local Purse; it was founded by a woman named Lola Akinmade Åkerström; and it’s won an award for being a hot startup for 2022. Go check out Local Purse! (Website ; and Facebook page ). From Marrakech to Cuzco to Nigeria and beyond, Local Purse offers some very tempting tours that are affordable both money-wise and time-wise. And of course there is that nice low eco footprint.

(UPDATE January 2024: It actually sounds like they’re now experiencing some obstacles. Their website says they’re taking a hiatus. But they remain open to being contacted.)

As I mentioned, I found Local Purse by the Facebook-hopping random-walk thing (which I probably do too much, but then again I always end up stumbling on such great people and info). So now I’d also like to put in a plug for the person whose ad led me to Local Purse, and that is a digital-nomad lifestyle writer named Nora Dunn who calls herself The Professional Hobo. She offers good advice, so if you’re a digital nomad, or think you might want to be, check out her Facebook page and her website theprofessionalhobo.com! (Here’s a post where she interviews Lola Akinmade Åkerström.)

And finally, a thought for artisans and entrepreneurs everywhere: We can all get in on virtual travel, by offering tours of our own places too!

Further Reading:

• My post “Thoughts On Tourism (Reading List)”. Includes link to Haunani Kay-Trask’s article “Lovely Hula Hands” mentioned above.

• My post “Thoughts on Tourism (Reading List — More)”.

“Thoughts on Tourism: Air Travel”. A mere 1% of the population causes half of global aviation emissions. Should this 1% pay — out of their own pockets — to offset their aviation admissions?” My response: Yes! They should. (We should, I mean, because at one point in my working life, I was part of this 1%, flying up to 11 times a year for a total of over 40k miles a year.) In this post I share how I have handled my air-travel footprint.

Light that candle! Wear that dress! Use that bath bomb! Eat that fruit! Spill the wine!

hello friendly reminder that you do not need a special occasion to use nice things! If you wait long enough your nice bath bomb won’t be as fizzy! your favorite fruits will go out of season! candles are meant to be burned, not looked at! you’re not enjoying your special tea if it’s just sitting in your cupboard! you’re allowed to have nice and special things on completely ordinary days! heck, it might just make that day special

(these words are from someone who goes by the handle “mysteryhacked”; you can follow them on some platform but I’m not sure what the platform is; doesn’t appear to be Facebook or Twitter — someone shared it as a screenshot on Facebook which is how I saw it)

And I say: YES!!! THIS. I love using my grandmother’s china for my everyday dishes. And spending beautiful evenings lit by nice candles that I bought from the thrift store for 50 cents or a dollar because the person who bought them 10 years ago at a boutique for 15 dollars never used them (they were “too pretty to burn”), and then later the person died or had to downsize and so that too-pretty-to-burn candle ended up in a thrift shop.

Long ago (around 1998), I had a beautiful jacket that I kept saving for special occasions. Over the years of me saving it for some special occasion that never arrived, the beautiful jacket got ruined by mildew. So I know whereof I speak!

And on this general carpe-diemish topic, one of my favorite ancient poems just came to me. It’s from the Odes, a collection of Latin lyric poems by Horace (65 BC- 8 BC). I no longer have the magazine clipping or whatever that I had taped to the cabinets of my trailer back in Austin 20 years ago, but I have read the poem so many times I can (mostly) remember what that text said. Note, a google will reveal various versions of the translation, none of which quite feel as rhythmically satisfying to me as the version I memorized all those years ago, and have (with errors no doubt) retyped below for you:

Seek not to know — we cannot know — what ends, the gods will bring, my love, to you or me.
Consult no Babylonian astrologers! 
Far better to endure whatever comes, whether Jove grant us many winters more, or whether this be the last, that now wears out
the Tuscan sea upon opposing rocks.
Be wise. Strain clear the wine. Since life is brief, cut short far-distant hopes.
Even while we speak, time, envious, takes flight. 
Live this day well.
Put little trust in what tomorrows hold.

New Year’s Intentions

Happy New Year to you! Got any special intentions or aspirations for 2022?

One of my intention/aspirations is to gather what I would call a “life-pod”!! Micro intentional seaside urban community, generating abundance, adapting in place.
I have just updated my post in the DA Connections group (Facebook) to include the term “life-pod.” And I’m copy-pasting that Facebook post below for you guys, and will be adding some extra details to it here.

I Am Seeking: Friendship/Community. Specifically, a “life pod” of longterm housemates (or very close neighbors). Maybe 3 to 5 people besides myself. Could include couples. Oriented around principles and ethics of Deep Adaptation, permaculture design, radical reduction. And, arts, creativity, financial resilience, occupational freedom. And last but definitely NOT least: anti-racism; de-colonization.

And, if a romantic connection happens for me, that’d be fine too but it isn’t my primary focus (though I take joy in helping other people find whatever connections they seek). Our plans as a life-pod would include pooling stuff and finances to the degree that we are comfortable (my house is fully furnished with stuff that’s ready to share); developing portability and resilience to be able to move to another geographic location together if circumstances absolutely required it, but basically being committed to adapting and building community in place; being in service to our wider community.

I’m almost 60 but open to any-age, multi-generational community, possibly including a “joint tenancy in common” of the house. I occupy my place (I’m getting away from the term “own” for various reasons) mortgage-free, and it is a sweet place on 1/10 acre where I’m cultivating native plants and a micro forest which includes some food for humans. Household expenses are very low, promoting occupational freedom and ample leisure time for residents.

Gender/orientation: cis-het female; she/her; enjoy sharing space with people of all ages and genders.

My Location: a seaside neighborhood in the historic urban core of Daytona Beach, Florida USA. I love city life, and intend to always continue living in urban spaces.

Seeking Deep Adaptation/permaculture/collapse-aware folks who live in Daytona Beach, Florida, USA, or are willing to move here! To explore and navigate what collapse might mean for us, and help build our community’s resilience.

My house is a laboratory for low-footprint living. I practice hardcore water conservation, play games of “how low can you go” with electricity consumption, compost everything I can, etc etc etc! It’s fun, and I enjoy sharing with housemates and friends who want to experience and practice this lifestyle.

There’s no hope for any future without community. And even if we could survive without each other, there’d be no joy and no point in it. (BTW speaking of joy, if by chance you play Bananagrams, that’d be a huge plus, as my family, who I love playing Bananagrams with, lives a 16-hour train ride from me!)

If this sounds interesting and you want to get more of an idea of whether we might have life-pod compatibility, give me a shout! You can also check out my various channels besides this blog (Facebook, Youtube, Twitter, TikTok etc.) to get an idea of what I’m like as a person and if we might click.

And, if you’re not already familiar with the following, you might find it helpful to check out Riot for Austerity (90 Percent Reduction Challenge); Deep Adaptation; permaculture design principles and ethics; Transition Towns movement; bioregionalism. (Not only to get an idea of me, but for your own benefit as well!)

Besides seeking a life-pod, I am also simply seeking similarly minded people in my geographic area (within about 6 miles / 10 kilometers of downtown Daytona Beach) who’d want to meet up (outdoors) and weave a wider regional community support network.

2021 Climate News Wrap-Up

“The Year in Climate News” — looking back over 2021. A lot happened.

2021 was yet another year that felt like five. … Before summer had even begun, drought, heat and fires had already torn across the West. … Despite inaccurate claims from Gov. Greg Abbott of Texas, we explained: No, the reason for the blackouts was not frozen wind turbines. The main problem was frigid temperatures that stalled natural gas production, which is responsible for the majority of Texas’ power supply. Fast forward to early June, when it wasn’t technically summer yet, but the American Southwest was already baking and drying up.”

The Year in Climate News
A lot happened this year. Jog your memory with stories compiled by The New York Times climate desk.

To get where we want to go, we need to know where we are and have been. Thank you always to the New York Times for its climate coverage.